Some of the lucky guys amongst us are naturals when comes to girls and online dating.But in the main, most men will need to look at a certain strategy and technique when it comes to mastering online dating.Success in the world’s most competitive dating environment will take much more than good looks and brains.
Any man who is considering turning to technology to find love should brace himself for a cold dose of reality because if he thinks that all it takes to become a seasoned online dater is to simply fire off a few messages to a couple of cute girls then he is destined to become yet another failed statistic.
Men need to consider their options and do a little research into the online dating space before rushing off into the unknown with all guns blazing. In a world that is largely dominated by men, the online dating game has its own set of rules, rules that are largely established by the girls.
The average online dating site has around 65%-70% male members, meaning that the girls are a scarce commodity and can accordingly set the ground rules as to how men need to best approach them in order to rise above the noise.
There are so many men using online dating sites that, from a girls point of view, it’s pretty much easy come, easy go – next.
Contrary to the belief of some, dating is not rocket science, but even if it was, men are wired in such a way that they will instinctively look to excel at it.
There are 2 main reasons as to why men fail with online dating. First we have the smart guys, the guys that excelled all the way through school and can talk-the-talk on just about any topic.
The problem herein is that they are too smart for their own good, and are too eager to share their opinions and accordingly come across as arrogant and intimidating – women are turned off by such attitudes.
When it comes to overestimating themselves, the other type of man in the dating game who falls foul of this, is an above average handsome man that has the social skills of a bull-frog.
They might be nice to look at for a while, however it becomes boring after too long, and his vanity sends off signals that he is far too into himself than to be into anyone else.
Then there are the overly-intense guys, the one’s that lay it all on way too soon!
These types of guys often cross boundaries well before she is ready to let him in.